Hey y'all, It's me again. If you follow me on instagram you may have already noticed that a while back I got myself a wheelchair. I had been trying to get one through benefits, but it turns out that's not gonna happen without a diagnosis. So I decided not to wait for that and spend …
How to legally change your name/ Hoe kan je je voornamen en gender officieel wijzigen
[Dutch below, Nederlands onderaan] Hey, I've been wanting to talk about this topic for quite some time now, but I'm only finding the spoons just now. I've been wanting to write this because there's a huge lack of info on this topic. By this topic I mean legally changing your name and gender marker if …
Binder giveaway!
Hey y'all! Last week I started a giveaway on instagram for some hardly worn binders I still own and I completely forgot to mention it here. I kinda closed it yesterday, but I'm picking winners today, so I stil wanted to give you guys a quick chance to enter. If you are interested, check out …
Pre-op frustrations
Hi y'all, I'm not really sure how to start this blog. A lot of positive things have been going on, but I need to get some frustrations off my chest. A little over a week ago I had my second top surgery consult. The surgeon was a lot nicer now he wasn't in as much …
Health update: lots to share
Hi y'all, A few things happened in the past few weeks I had promised to write about, but it all had been so exhausting, not just physically and cognitively, but also emotionally, I had to put it off for a while. Simply put it has been an emotional rollercoaster. It's hard to decide where to …
Recipe: fish tajine (with vegan option)
Hi y'all! I finally have a recipe again! Not only was I short on spoons lately to create recipes, I also seemed to be having a bit of a "writers" block. Only time will tell if things are going better or if I'm just having a few good days, but let's enjoy it while it …
Blog: top surgery consult
Hi y'all, A few days ago I mentioned I'd be having my top surgery consult soon. Since I don't see much info about physical transition in Europe besides the UK I thought I'd share my experience. Specially with my experience as a person from the Netherlands going through their medical transition in Belgium, which isn't …
Blog: health problems update
Hi y'all, It's been a few days since I posted about some health problems. I promised and update then, and since there's actually something to update on, here we are. Before I continue I want to put out a disclaimer that I took some steps I might not necessarily recommend to others. Each situation is …
Blog: health problems
Hi y'all! I keep promising I'll be back more often, but my health keeps getting in the way. Sorry 😦 Most of the decline has been going slow and subtle, but the last few days I've been in a lot of pain. Like, a lot. I don't know what's going on in my bowels, but …
Blog + heatwave tips
Hi y'all, Welcome back! And so soon, I know! I really want to try to commit, but honestly that's something I strugle with. Not just for this blog, but with just about anything. But today I'm here because I wanted to talk about the heatwave. I want to leave the elephant in the room for …
